The Girl Who Has Everything, Yet Nothing to Love.
Everyday she wakes up to a family that pampers her. The breakfast made for her. And the day that awaits her. Her day is showered with her run ins with friends and acquaintances, and she appears to be the happiest and most popular girl in the world. More friends than fingers and toes, more admirers than body parts... what more could she want? She shops to no end, buys shoes, shirts and skirts... to fill that void inside. The luxury, the fame, the fashion and the friends, but is there love?
You can offer this girl shoes, but to her they are replaceable and plenty more at home. Offer her a meal and she will be full for but a moment. Offer her friendship and she will have one more contact in her phone book. Offer her love and she will be lost without an idea what to do and deny the one thing she doesn't have. What she doesnt realize is that is the love better than all she has...
In the material world, this girl has everything. Everything is perfect on the outside... but how does she feel on the inside? When you are the girl who yearns for "everything", think of what you're getting... think of how you will be the girl who puts a price on everything but never can find love... never values the love, because when its there, you seek the price of it.
Should you know how to love, know what love is... truly value love, feel love. Wish for nothing more. Love is what gives hope, faith and happiness, priceless. You can give a girl everything, but the one who has love, wouldn't trade it for anything... or would she.
The Boy Who Has Everything, Yet Nothing to Love.
He has friends, he's an athlete. He's the jock, the star, the guy with the nice car. The posse everyone loves to hate. The laughter, the mocking, the ever present popularity. He has the friends he can't trust, followers like Jesus himself, however is hated by the greater majority. Fortunately to him, they are but insects and he has the approval of those he finds important.
Materialistically he has everything he wants, everything he needs... in his eyes he has the world at his fingertips... but really what does he have? He carries on him the hate of those he bullies, he carries the guilt of the girls he's hurt... and so much more. Finds pride in the number of drinks he consumes, girls he hurts and insults he makes. His career is of no concern, because the moment is perfect.
But really... life is no popularity contest, and he has no one to trust, no one to love and overall the guy false tears will be shed for. To fill the void of love, he fills it with false laughter, alcohol and popularity. The guy everyone wants to be, but everyone hates... funny thing is? He ends up with the Girl With Everything but Nothing to Love.
What they make
They fill each others void of nothing to love with the false image of love. Fill the void with physical love. Give each other nothing but social satisfaction and give no value to each other. Picture perfect in the eyes of others, superficial, but their voids are still there.
You may not be the girl who has everything, or the boy who has everything, but everyone knows this relationship. The one where you try to fill the void of love with someone... someone who you don't love, but you seem to think they fit the image. The attempt to be in a relationship without love, is fooling no one but yourselves. If you cannot trust yourself, who can you trust? You will be in the end with nothing. As what is truly of value you have no understanding of... as what you need you have no idea until its no longer availible.
Being the boy or the girl is not nearly as bad as being in the loveless relationship. Sometimes a few sweet words and the most beautiful gifts have no meaning, except "Help me fill the void, and lets play a game; its called Charades."
If you're the boy or the girl... maybe its time to reevaluate that role... if you are in that relationship, maybe its time to evaluate the relationship. How much do you "love" them? Really.
Friday, December 01, 2006
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I have everything when I have a friend like you <3 my duckyface.
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